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have used such earnestness, what shall we wretched ones suffer, who approach God the master of all with such indifference, and that when we are liable to a much greater wrath? For neither would a servant so provoke a master, nor a subject a king, as we do God every day. And Christ, indicating this, called the sins against a neighbor one hundred denarii, but those against God ten thousand talents. Since, therefore, we approach in our prayers to quench so great a wrath, and to be reconciled with him with whom we are so at war every day, he rightly leads us away from that pleasure, all but saying: Our concern is for our soul, beloved, the danger is for the ultimate things; one must tremble and fear and be composed; we approach a fearsome master, who has been greatly insulted by you, who has great charges against us and over great things to accuse us. This is not a time for embraces or pleasures, but for tears and bitter groans, for prostration, for exact confession, for intense supplication, for much entreaty. For it is a welcome thing for one who has approached with such earnestness to be able to appease that wrath, not because our master is harsh or cruel—for he is exceedingly gentle and loving—but the excess of our sins does not permit even the good and gracious and most merciful one to forgive us quickly. Wherefore he says, "That you may have leisure for fasting and prayer." What then could be more bitter than this slavery? Do you wish, he says, to advance toward virtue, to fly up to heaven, by continually persevering in fastings and prayers to wipe away the filth of your soul? Then if she is not willing to consent to this purpose, it is necessary to be a slave to her lust. For this reason he said at the beginning, "It is good for a man not to touch a woman." For this reason also the disciples said to the Lord, "If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is not expedient to marry." For having reasoned that there is great necessity for the insolence to be on the one side or the other, and being distressed by their thoughts, they uttered this saying.

33 That to speak a second time about the same things is to imitate Christ. For this reason Paul also constantly repeats it, so that he might instill this thought into the Corinthians: "Let each man have his own wife, let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, the wife does not have authority over her own body, do not deprive one another, come together again." For not even those blessed men at that time immediately understood this from the first utterance, but when they heard these things a second time, then they perceived the necessity of the commandment. For when Christ was sitting on the mountain, he spoke about this, and again after many other things; thus he led them into the love of continence. Thus the same things, being said continually, have a greater effect. Here, therefore, the disciple, imitating the teacher, continually discusses the same things; and nowhere does he set down the concession simply, but with a reason, saying, "because of fornication" and "the satanic temptations and incontinence," and unsuspectedly he composes an encomium of virginity in his words about marriage.

34 That virginity is wonderful and worthy of many crowns. For if he fears to separate for long those who live in marriage, lest the devil find some way to slip in, of how many crowns would they be worthy who from the beginning have not needed this consolation and have remained unconquered until the end? And yet the devices of the devil are not brought against both equally. For I do not think he even troubles the one group, knowing that their refuge is near, and if they perceive any more violent attack, it is possible to flee immediately to the harbor. For the blessed Paul does not permit them to sail further, but to return whenever they grow weary, and he exhorts them again, permitting them to come together. But the virgin is forced to sail the whole sea and to navigate a harborless ocean, and even if the most difficult storm should arise, it is not lawful for her to moor her vessel and rest.

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κέχρηνται τῇ σπουδῇ, τί πεισόμεθα ἡμεῖς οἱ δείλαιοι, μετὰ τοσαύτης ῥαθυμίας τῷ πάντων δεσπότῃ προσιόντες Θεῷ καὶ ταῦτα πολλῷ μείζονος ὀργῆς ὄντες ὑπεύθυνοι; Οὔτε γὰρ οἰκέτης δεσπότην οὔτε ἀρχόμενος βασιλέα παροξύνειεν ἂν οὕτως ὡς τὸν Θεὸν καθ' ἑκάστην ἡμέραν ἡμεῖς. Καὶ τοῦτο ἐμφαίνων ὁ Χριστὸς τὰ μὲν εἰς τὸν πλησίον ἁμαρτήματα ἑκατὸν ἐκάλει δηνάρια, τὰ δὲ εἰς τὸν Θεὸν μύρια τάλαντα. Ἐπεὶ οὖν τοσαύτην ἐν ταῖς εὐχαῖς πρόσιμεν σβέσοντες ὀργὴν καὶ ὃν οὕτω καθ' ἑκάστην ἐκπολεμοῦμεν τὴν ἡμέραν καταλλάξοντες, εἰκότως ἡμᾶς ἀπάγει τῆς ἡδονῆς ἐκείνης μονονουχὶ λέγων· περὶ ψυχῆς ἡμῖν ὁ λόγος, ἀγαπητοί, ὑπὲρ τῶν ἐσχάτων ὁ κίνδυνος· τρέμειν δεῖ καὶ δεδοικέναι καὶ συνεστάλθαι· δεσπότῃ πρόσιμεν φοβερῷ πολλὰ παρ' ὑμῶν ὑβρισμένῳ μεγάλα ἡμῖν ἔχοντι καὶ ὑπὲρ μεγάλων ἐγκαλεῖν. Οὐ περιπλοκῶν οὗτος ὁ καιρὸς οὔτε ἡδονῶν ἀλλὰ δακρύων καὶ στεναγμῶν πικρῶν, προσπτώσεως, ἐξομολογήσεως ἀκριβοῦς, λιτανείας συντεταμένης, ἱκετηρίας πολλῆς. Ἀγαπητὸν γὰρ καὶ μετὰ τοσαύτης προσελθόντα σπουδῆς δυνηθῆναι μειλίξασθαι τὴν ὀργὴν ἐκείνην, οὐχ ὅτι ἀπηνὴς οὐδ' ὅτι ὠμὸς ὁ δεσπότης ἡμῶν-καὶ γὰρ σφόδρα ἐστὶν ἥμερος καὶ φιλάνθρωπος-ἀλλ' ἡ τῶν ἁμαρτημάτων τῶν ἡμετέρων ὑπερβολὴ οὐδὲ τὸν χρηστὸν καὶ ἐπιεικῆ καὶ πολυέλεον ἀφίησιν ἡμῖν συγγνῶναι ταχέως. ∆ιό φησιν· «Ἵνα σχολάζητε τῇ νηστείᾳ καὶ προσευχῇ.» Τί οὖν ἂν εἴη τῆς δουλείας ταύτης πικρότερον; Βούλει, φησίν, ἐπιδοῦναι πρὸς ἀρετήν, ἀναπτῆναι πρὸς οὐρανόν, νηστείαις καὶ εὐχαῖς συνεχῶς προσκαρτερῶν ἀποσμῆξαι τὸν ῥύπον τῆς ψυχῆς; Εἶτα ἂν μὴ βούληται ἐκείνη ταύτῃ ἐπινεῦσαι τῇ γνώμῃ, ἀνάγκη δουλεύειν αὐτῆς τῇ λαγνείᾳ. ∆ιὰ τοῦτο γὰρ ἀρχόμενος ἔλεγε· «Καλὸν ἀνθρώπῳ γυναικὸς μὴ ἅπτεσθαι.» ∆ιὰ τοῦτο καὶ οἱ μαθηταὶ πρὸς τὸν κύριον εἶπον· «Εἰ οὕτως ἐστὶν ἡ αἰτία τοῦ ἀνθρώπου μετὰ τῆς γυναικός, οὐ συμφέρει γαμῆσαι.» Λογισάμενοι γὰρ ὅτι πολλὴ ἀνάγκη θατέρῳ τῷ μέρει γενέσθαι τὴν ἐπήρειαν καὶ στενοχωρηθέντες ὑπὸ τῶν λογισμῶν ταύτην ἀφῆκαν τὴν φωνήν.

33 Ὅτι τὸ δεύτερον εἰπεῖν περὶ τῶν αὐτῶν τὸν Χριστόν ἐστι μιμουμένων. ∆ιὰ τοῦτο καὶ ὁ Παῦλος συνεχῶς αὐτὸ στρέφει ἵνα εἰς τοῦτον τὸν λογισμὸν ἐμβαλῇ τοὺς Κορινθίους· «Ἕκαστος τὴν ἑαυτοῦ γυναῖκα ἐχέτω, τῇ γυναικὶ ὁ ἀνὴρ τὴν ὀφειλομένην εὔνοιαν ἀποδιδότω, ἡ γυνὴ τοῦ ἰδίου σώματος οὐκ ἐξουσιάζει, μὴ ἀποστερεῖτε ἀλλήλους, ἐπὶ τὸ αὐτὸ συνέρχεσθε.» Οὐδὲ γὰρ οἱ μακάριοι τότε ἐκεῖνοι ἐκ πρώτης εὐθέως τοῦτο ἔπαθον τῆς φωνῆς, ἀλλ' ὅτε ἐκ δευτέρου ταῦτα ἤκουσαν, τότε συνεῖδον τῆς ἐντολῆς τὴν ἀνάγκην. Καὶ γὰρ ὅτε ἐκάθητο ἐπὶ τοῦ ὄρους ὁ Χριστός, διελέχθη περὶ τούτου καὶ μεθ' ἕτερα πολλὰ πάλιν· οὕτως αὐτοὺς εἰσήγαγεν εἰς τὸν τῆς ἐγκρατείας ἔρωτα. Οὕτω συνεχῶς τὰ αὐτὰ λεγόμενα πλείονα ἔχει τὴν ἐνεργείαν. Κἀνταῦθα οὖν τὸν διδάσκαλον μιμούμενος ὁ μαθητὴς συνεχῶς περὶ τῶν αὐτῶν διαλέγεται· καὶ οὐδαμοῦ τὴν συγχώρησιν ἁπλῶς τίθησιν ἀλλὰ μετὰ αἰτίας, «διὰ τὰς πορνείας» λέγων «καὶ τοὺς πειρασμοὺς σατανικοὺς καὶ τὴν ἀκρασίαν» καὶ ἀνυπόπτως τὸ τῆς παρθενίας ἐγκώμιον ἐργαζόμενος ἐν τοῖς περὶ τοῦ γάμου λόγοις.

34 Ὅτι θαυμαστὸν καὶ πολλῶν ἄξιον στεφάνων ἡ παρθενία. Εἰ γὰρ τοὺς ἐν τῷ γάμῳ διατρίβοντας δέδοικεν ἀποστῆσαι ἐπιπολὺ μή τινα παρείσδυσιν ὁ διάβολος εὕρῃ, πόσων ἂν εἶεν ἄξιαι στεφάνων αἱ μηδὲ παρὰ τὴν ἀρχὴν ταύτης δεηθεῖσαι τῆς παραμυθίας καὶ μέχρι τέλους ἀχείρωτοι διαμείνασαι; Καίτοι οὐδὲ τὰ παρὰ τοῦ διαβόλου μηχανήματα ἐξ ἴσης ἀμφοτέροις προσάγεται. Τοῖς μὲν γὰρ οὔτε ἐνοχλεῖν αὐτὸν οἶμαι εἰδότα ὅτι πλησίον αὐτοῖς ἡ καταφυγή, κἄν τινος αἴσθωνται σφοδροτέρας προσβολῆς, ἔξεστιν εὐθέως ἐπὶ τὸν λιμένα καταφυγεῖν. Οὐδὲ γὰρ ἀφίησιν αὐτοὺς ὁ μακάριος Παῦλος πορρωτέρω πλεῖν ἀλλ' ὑποστρέφειν ἡνίκα ἂν κάμωσι καὶ παραινεῖ πάλιν ἐπιτρέπων ἐπὶ τὸ αὐτὸ συνέρχεσθαι. Ἡ δὲ παρθένος δι' ὅλου θαλαττεύειν ἀναγκάζεται καὶ πέλαγος πλεῖν ἀλίμενον, κἂν ὁ χαλεπώτατος διεγερθῇ χειμών, οὐδὲ οὕτω θέμις ὁρμίσαι τὸ σκάφος αὐτῇ καὶ ἀναπαύσασθαι.