John Chrysostom, On John

often see; but when those who have need, these beseech, the miracle becomes unsuspected, and the praise pure, and the benefit great. 3. For if some excellent physician, entering into a house of many sick people, should hear nothing from the sick nor from their relatives, but should be called upon by his own mother alone, he will be both suspect to the sick and burdensome, and no one, either of those lying sick or of those standing by them, will think that he is able to display anything great and noble. Therefore He rebuked her then, saying: What have I to do with you, woman? teaching her for the future no longer to do such things. For He was concerned both for the honor due to His mother, and much more for the salvation of her soul, and for the benefit of the many, for which He also took on flesh. These words, therefore, were not of one acting arrogantly toward His mother, but of a great dispensation, both regulating her, and preparing for the miracles to happen with fitting dignity. Indeed, that He greatly honored her, this very saying, which seems to be a rebuke, is, apart from all else, most sufficient to show it. For by His displeasure He showed that He greatly respected her. How and in what way, we will say in what follows. Considering these things, therefore, also when you hear a certain woman saying, ‘Blessed is the womb that bore you, and the breasts which you sucked;’ then His answering, ‘Yea rather, blessed are they that do the will of my Father;’ consider that those words were spoken from the same mind. For the answer was not of one thrusting away his mother, but of one showing that the birth would have profited her nothing, if she was not greatly in travail with him, she claimed the right according to the common custom of mothers, thus to command him in all things, it being needful to reverence and worship him as Lord. Therefore, then, He answered thus. For consider what it was, when all the people and the crowd stood around Him, and the multitude was hanging on His hearing, and the teaching was set forth, for her to come into the midst, to draw Him away from His exhortation, and to converse with Him privately, not even enduring to come inside, but drawing Him outside alone to herself. For this reason He said, ‘Who is my mother and my brothers?’ not insulting her who bore him—far from it—but benefitting her in the greatest things, and not allowing her to think lowly things concerning Him. For if He cared for others, and did all things so as to instill in them the fitting opinion concerning Him, much more so in the case of His mother. For since it was likely that even having heard from her child she would not wish to be so persuaded, but to claim for herself the first place everywhere, as being His mother; for this reason He answered thus to those who told Him. For neither in any other way could He have led her up from this humble thought to that height, if she expected to be always honored as by a child, and not that He would come as Lord. And here, then, for this reason He said: ‘What have I to do with you, O woman?’ And for another necessary reason no less. And what is this? So that the miracles which took place might not be suspected. For it was necessary to be called upon by those in need, not by His mother. Why so? Because things that happen from the entreaty of relatives, even if they are great, often give offense to those who see them; but when those who have need, these beseech, the miracle becomes unsuspected, and the praise pure, and the benefit great. 3. For if some excellent physician, entering into a house of many sick people, should hear nothing from the sick nor from their relatives, but should be called upon by his own mother alone, he will be both suspect to the sick and burdensome, and no one, either of those lying sick or of those standing by them, will think that he is able to display anything great and noble. Therefore He rebuked her then, saying: What have I to do with you, woman? teaching her for the future no longer to do such things. For He was concerned both for the honor due to His mother, and much more for the salvation of her soul, and for the benefit of the many, for which He also took on flesh. These words, therefore, were not of one acting arrogantly toward His mother, but

ὁρῶσι πολλάκις· ὅταν δὲ οἱ χρείαν ἔχοντες, οὗτοι δέωνται, ἀνύποπτον τὸ θαῦμα γίνεται, καὶ καθαρὸς ὁ ἔπαινος, καὶ πολλὴ ἡ ὠφέλεια. γʹ. Καὶ γὰρ ἰατρὸς εἴ τις ἄριστος, εἰς οἰκίαν καμνόντων πολλῶν εἰσελθὼν, παρὰ μὲν τῶν ἀῤῥωστούντων μηδὲν ἀκούοι μηδὲ τῶν προσηκόντων ἐκείνοις, ὑπὸ δὲ τῆς οἰκείας μητρὸς παρακαλοῖτο μόνης, ὕποπτός τε παρὰ τοῖς κάμνουσιν ἔσται καὶ ἐπαχθὴς, καὶ οὔτε τῶν κειμένων, οὔτε τῶν παρεστώτων αὐτοῖς οἰήσεταί τις αὐτὸν μέγα τι καὶ γενναῖον ἐπιδείξασθαι δύνασθαι. ∆ιὸ καὶ τότε ἐπετίμησε, λέγων· Τί ἐμοὶ καὶ σοὶ, γύναι; παιδεύων αὐτὴν εἰς τὸ μέλλον μηκέτι τὰ τοιαῦτα ποιεῖν. Ἔμελε γὰρ αὐτῷ καὶ τῆς εἰς τὴν μητέρα τιμῆς, πολλῷ δὲ πλέον τῆς σωτηρίας τῆς κατὰ ψυχὴν, καὶ τῆς τῶν πολλῶν εὐεργεσίας, δι' ἣν καὶ τὴν σάρκα ὑπέδυ. Οὐ τοίνυν ἀπαυθαδιαζομένου πρὸς τὴν μητέρα ταῦτα τὰ ῥήματα ἦν, ἀλλ' οἰκονομίας πολλῆς ῥυθμιζούσης αὐτήν τε ἐκείνην, καὶ τὰ θαύματα μετὰ τῆς προσηκούσης γενέσθαι παρασκευαζούσης ἀξίας. Ἐπεὶ ὅτι σφόδρα αὐτὴν ἐτίμα, καὶ χωρὶς τῶν ἄλλων αὐτὸ τοῦτο τὸ δοκοῦν ἐπιτιμητικῶς εἰρῆσθαι, μάλιστα ἱκανὸν ἐμφῆναι. Τῷ γὰρ δυσχερᾶναι ἔδειξεν ὅτι σφόδρα αὐτὴν δυσωπεῖται. Πῶς δὲ καὶ τίνι τρόπῳ, τῇ ἑξῆς τοῦτο ἐροῦμεν. Ταῦτα οὖν ἐννοῶν, καὶ ὅταν ἀκούσῃς γυναικός τινος λεγούσης· Μακαρία ἡ κοιλία ἡ βαστάσασά σε, καὶ μαστοὶ οὓς ἐθήλασας· εἶτα αὐτοῦ ἀποκρινομένου· Μενοῦν γε μακάριοι οἱ ποιοῦντες τὸ θέλημα τοῦ Πατρός μου· ἀπὸ τῆς αὐτῆς γνώμης κἀκεῖνα εἰρῆσθαι νόμιζε τὰ ῥήματα. Οὐ γὰρ ἀπωθουμένου τὴν μητέρα ἡ ἀπόκρισις ἦν, ἀλλὰ δεικνύντος ὅτι οὐδὲν αὐτὴν ὁ τόκος ὤνησεν ἂν, εἰ μὴ σφόδρα ἦν ὤδινεν αὐτὸν, ἠξίου κατὰ τὴν λοιπὴν τῶν μητέρων συνήθειαν, οὕτως ἅπαντα ἐπιτάττειν αὐτῷ, δέον ὡς ∆εσπότην σέβειν καὶ προσκυνεῖν. ∆ιὰ τοῦτο οὖν τότε οὕτως ἀπεκρίνατο. Ἐννόησον γὰρ οἷον ἦν παντὸς τοῦ λαοῦ καὶ τοῦ δήμου περιεστῶτος αὐτὸν, καὶ τοῦ πλήθους τῆς ἀκροάσεως ἐκκρεμαμένου, καὶ τῆς διδασκαλίας προτεθείσης, ἐκείνην παρελθοῦσαν μέσην, ἀπαγαγεῖν μὲν αὐτὸν τῆς παραινέσεως, ἰδίᾳ δὲ διαλέγεσθαι, μηδὲ ἔνδον ἀνέχεσθαι ἐλθεῖν, ἀλλ' ἕλκειν αὐτὸν ἔξω μόνον πρὸς ἑαυτήν. ∆ιὰ τοῦτο ἔλεγε, Τίς ἐστιν ἡ μήτηρ μου καὶ οἱ ἀδελφοί μου; οὐχ ὑβρίζων τὴν γεγεννηκυῖαν· ἄπαγε· ἀλλ' ὠφελῶν τὰ μέγιστα, καὶ οὐκ ἀφιεὶς ταπεινὰ περὶ αὐτοῦ φρονεῖν. Εἰ γὰρ τῶν ἄλλων ἐκήδετο, καὶ πάντα ἔπραττεν ὥστε ἐνθεῖναι αὐτοῖς τὴν προσήκουσαν περὶ αὐτοῦ δόξαν, πολλῷ μᾶλλον ἐπὶ μητρός. Ἐπειδὴ γὰρ εἰκὸς ἦν καὶ ἀκούσασαν παρὰ τοῦ παιδὸς μὴ βούλεσθαι μηδὲ οὕτω πεισθῆναι, ἀλλ' ἀξιοῦν ἑαυτὴν πανταχοῦ τῶν πρωτείων, ἅτε μητέρα οὖσαν· διὰ τοῦτο οὕτως ἀπεκρίνατο πρὸς τοὺς εἰπόντας. Οὐδὲ γὰρ ἂν ἑτέρως αὐτὴν ἀνήγαγεν ἀπὸ τῆς ταπεινώσεως ταύτης πρὸς τὸ ὕψος ἐκεῖνο, εἰ προσεδόκα ὡς παρὰ παιδὸς ἀεὶ τιμηθήσεσθαι, ἀλλὰ μὴ ὡς ∆εσπότην ἥξειν αὐτόν. Καὶ ἐνταῦθα μὲν οὖν ταύτης ἕνεκεν τῆς προφάσεως ἔλεγε· Τί ἐμοὶ καὶ σοὶ, ὦ γύναι; Καὶ δι' ἑτέραν δὲ ἀναγκαίαν αἰτίαν οὐχ ἧττον. Ποίαν δὲ ταύτην; Ὥστε μὴ ὑποπτευθῆναι τὰ γινόμενα θαύματα. Παρὰ γὰρ τῶν δεομένων παρακληθῆναι ἐχρῆν, οὐ παρὰ τῆς μητρός. Τί δήποτε; Ὅτι τὰ μὲν ἐκ τῆς τῶν οἰκείων παρακλήσεως γινόμενα, κἂν μεγάλα ᾖ, προσίσταται τοῖς ὁρῶσι πολλάκις· ὅταν δὲ οἱ χρείαν ἔχοντες, οὗτοι δέωνται, ἀνύποπτον τὸ θαῦμα γίνεται, καὶ καθαρὸς ὁ ἔπαινος, καὶ πολλὴ ἡ ὠφέλεια. γʹ. Καὶ γὰρ ἰατρὸς εἴ τις ἄριστος, εἰς οἰκίαν καμνόντων πολλῶν εἰσελθὼν, παρὰ μὲν τῶν ἀῤῥωστούντων μηδὲν ἀκούοι μηδὲ τῶν προσηκόντων ἐκείνοις, ὑπὸ δὲ τῆς οἰκείας μητρὸς παρακαλοῖτο μόνης, ὕποπτός τε παρὰ τοῖς κάμνουσιν ἔσται καὶ ἐπαχθὴς, καὶ οὔτε τῶν κειμένων, οὔτε τῶν παρεστώτων αὐτοῖς οἰήσεταί τις αὐτὸν μέγα τι καὶ γενναῖον ἐπιδείξασθαι δύνασθαι. ∆ιὸ καὶ τότε ἐπετίμησε, λέγων· Τί ἐμοὶ καὶ σοὶ, γύναι; παιδεύων αὐτὴν εἰς τὸ μέλλον μηκέτι τὰ τοιαῦτα ποιεῖν. Ἔμελε γὰρ αὐτῷ καὶ τῆς εἰς τὴν μητέρα τιμῆς, πολλῷ δὲ πλέον τῆς σωτηρίας τῆς κατὰ ψυχὴν, καὶ τῆς τῶν πολλῶν εὐεργεσίας, δι' ἣν καὶ τὴν σάρκα ὑπέδυ. Οὐ τοίνυν ἀπαυθαδιαζομένου πρὸς τὴν μητέρα ταῦτα τὰ ῥήματα ἦν, ἀλλ'