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I asked a favor as from a friend, and this from my own things, and I promised to give greater things in return; and not even so did you become better. And when men do this, they reckon to their own servants only as much as is the measure of the debt; for example, the servant owes the master one hundred gold pieces, the servant's debtor owes ten gold pieces; if he forgives him the debt, the master does not remit the hundred for him, but only the ten, and demands all the others; But God is not so. But if you forgive your fellow servant a few things, He Himself forgives you all things. From where is this clear? From the prayer itself; For if you forgive, He says, 49.207 men their debts, your heavenly Father will also forgive you your debts. And as great as is the difference between one hundred denarii and ten thousand talents, so great is the difference between their debts and ours. Of what punishment, then, would you not be worthy, you who are about to receive ten thousand talents in exchange for one hundred denarii, and not even so forgiving these small things, but making this prayer against yourself? For when you say, Forgive us, as we also forgive, and then you do not forgive, you ask nothing else of God than to deprive you of all defense and pardon. But I do not dare, he says, to say, Forgive me, as I forgive, but, Forgive me, only. And what of this? For even if you yourself do not say it, God acts so; as you forgive, so He forgives. And this He made very clear from the following words. For if you do not forgive men, He says, neither does your heavenly Father forgive you. Do not then think it to be reverence not to say the whole phrase, nor make the prayer by halves, but pray as He ordained, so that even the necessity of the wording, inspiring fear day by day, may impel you towards the forgiveness of your neighbors. Do not say to me: I have pleaded much, I have supplicated, I have entreated, and he was not reconciled; do not depart before, until you have reconciled him. For He did not say, Leave your gift, and go, supplicate your brother, but, Go, be reconciled; so that even if you supplicate much, do not depart before you persuade him. God exhorts us every day, and we do not listen, and yet He does not cease exhorting; but do you disdain to exhort your fellow servant? And when will you be able to be saved? But you have pleaded many times, and many times you have been rejected; but for this you will receive a greater reward. For the more contentious he is, and you persist in pleading, the more your rewards increase; the more the good deed is accomplished with greater difficulty, and the reconciliation with much labor, so much greater will the judgment be for him, and for you more glorious the crowns of perseverance. Let us not only praise these things, but also demonstrate them through our deeds, and let us not depart before we have returned to our former friendship. For it is not enough not to grieve or wrong the enemy, nor to be ill-disposed towards him in your mind, but you must also prepare him to be well-disposed towards us.

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ὡς φίλῳ χάριν ᾔτησα, καὶ ταύτην ἐκ τῶν ἐμῶν, καὶ μείζονα δώσειν ὑπεσχόμην πάλιν· καὶ οὐδὲ οὕτω βελτίων ἐγένου. Καὶ ἄνθρωποι μὲν ὅταν τοῦτο ποιῶσι, τοσοῦτον λογίζονται τοῖς αὐτῶν οἰκέταις, ὅσον ἐστὶ τὸ μέτρον τοῦ ὀφειλήματος· οἷον ὀφείλει τῷ δεσπότῃ χρυσίνους ἑκατὸν ὁ οἰκέτης, ὁ τοῦ οἰκέτου χρεώστης χρυσίνους δέκα· ἂν αὐτῷ συγχωρήσῃ τὸ ὀφείλημα, οὐχὶ τοὺς ἑκατὸν αὐτῷ ἀφίησιν ὁ δεσπότης, ἀλλὰ τοὺς δέκα μόνους, τοὺς δὲ ἑτέρους ἅπαντας ἀπαιτεῖ· ὁ δὲ Θεὸς οὐχ οὕτως. ἀλλ' ἂν ἀφῇς ὀλίγα τῷ συνδούλῳ, πάντα σοι ἀφίησιν αὐτός. Πόθεν τοῦτο δῆλον· Ἀπ' αὐτῆς τῆς εὐχῆς· Ἐὰν γὰρ ἀφῆτε, φησὶ, τοῖς 49.207 ἀνθρώποις τὰ ὀφειλήματα αὐτῶν, καὶ ὁ Πατὴρ ὑμῶν ὁ οὐράνιος ἀφήσει ὑμῖν τὰ ὀφειλήματα ὑμῶν. Ὅσον δὲ ἑκατὸν δηναρίων καὶ μυρίων ταλάντων τὸ μέσον, τοσοῦτον ἐκείνων καὶ τούτων τῶν ὀφειλημάτων. Ποίας οὖν οὐκ ἂν εἴης κολάσεως ἄξιος ὁ τὰ μύρια τάλαντα ἀντὶ ἑκατὸν δηναρίων λαμβάνειν μέλλων, καὶ οὐδὲ οὕτω τὰ μικρὰ ταῦτα ἀφεὶς, ἀλλὰ καθ' ἑαυτοῦ τὴν εὐχὴν ταύτην ποιούμενος; Ὅταν γὰρ εἴπῃς, Ἄφες ἡμῖν, ὡς καὶ ἡμεῖς ἀφίεμεν, εἶτα σὺ μὴ ἀφῇς, οὐδὲν ἕτερον τὸν Θεὸν παρακαλεῖς, ἀλλ' ἢ πάσης ἀπολογίας ἀποστερεῖν σε καὶ συγγνώμης. Ἀλλ' οὐ τολμῶ, φησὶν, εἰπεῖν, Ἄφες μοι, καθὼς ἀφίημι, ἀλλ', Ἄφες μοι, μόνον. Καὶ τί τοῦτο; κἂν γὰρ αὐτὸς μὴ εἴπῃς, ὁ Θεὸς οὕτω ποιεῖ· καθὼς ἀφίης, οὕτως ἀφίησι. Καὶ τοῦτο ἐκ τῆς ἐπαγωγῆς εὔδηλον ἐποίησεν. Ἐὰν γὰρ μὴ ἀφῆτε, φησὶ, τοῖς ἀνθρώποις, οὐδὲ ὁ Πατὴρ ὑμῶν ὁ οὐράνιος ἀφίησιν ὑμῖν. Μὴ τοίνυν εὐλάβειαν εἶναι νομίσῃς τὸ μὴ λέγειν ὁλόκληρον τὴν ῥῆσιν, μηδὲ ἐξ ἡμισείας ποιοῦ τὴν εὐχὴν, ἀλλ' ὡς ἔταξεν, οὕτως εὔχου, ἵνα κἂν ἡ ἀνάγκη τῆς λέξεως φοβοῦσα καθ' ἡμέραν συνωθήσῃ σε πρὸς τὴν τῶν πλησίον συγχώρησιν. Μή μοι λέγε· Παρεκάλεσα πολλὰ, ἱκέτευσα, ἐδεήθην, καὶ οὐ κατηλλάγη· πρότερον μὴ ἀποστῇς, ἕως ἂν καταλλάξῃς. Οὐ γὰρ εἶπεν, Ἄφες τὸ δῶρόν σου, καὶ ὕπαγε, ἱκέτευσον τὸν ἀδελφόν σου, ἀλλ', Ὕπαγε, διαλλάγηθι· ὥστε κἂν πολλὰ ἱκετεύσῃς, μὴ πρότερον ἀποστῇς, ἕως ἂν πείσῃς. Ὁ Θεὸς καθ' ἑκάστην ἡμέραν ἡμᾶς παρακαλεῖ, καὶ οὐκ ἀκούομεν, καὶ ὅμως οὐ παύεται παρακαλῶν· σὺ δὲ τὸν σύνδουλόν σου ἀπαξιοῖς παρακαλέσαι; Καὶ πότε δυνήσῃ σωθῆναι; Ἀλλὰ πολλάκις παρεκάλεσας, καὶ πολλάκις ἀπεκρούσθης· ἀλλὰ πλείονα διὰ τοῦτο λήψῃ μισθόν. Ὅσῳ γὰρ ἂν ἐκεῖνος φιλονεικῇ, καὶ σὺ μένῃς παρακαλῶν, τοσούτῳ σοι τὰ τῆς ἀμοιβῆς αὔξεται· ὅσῳ μετὰ πλείονος δυσκολίας τὸ κατόρθωμα γίνεται, καὶ πολλοῦ τοῦ πόνου ἡ καταλλαγὴ, τοσούτῳ κἀκείνῳ μεῖζον ἔσται τὸ κρῖμα, καὶ σοὶ λαμπρότεροι τῆς καρτερίας οἱ στέφανοι. Ταῦτα μὴ μόνον ἐπαινῶμεν, ἀλλὰ καὶ διὰ τῶν ἔργων ἐπιδειξώμεθα, καὶ μὴ πρότερον ἀναχωρήσωμεν, ἕως ἂν εἰς τὴν προτέραν ἐπανέλθωμεν φιλίαν. Οὐ γὰρ ἀρκεῖ τὸ μὴ λυπεῖν μηδὲ ἀδικεῖν τὸν ἐχθρὸν, μηδὲ ἀηδῶς ἔχειν πρὸς αὐτὸν κατὰ διάνοιαν, ἀλλὰ χρὴ κἀκεῖνον παρασκευάζειν ἡδέως πρὸς ἡμᾶς ἔχειν.

ζʹ. Καὶ γὰρ ἀκούω πολλῶν λεγόντων· Ἐγὼ οὐκ ἐχθραίνω, οὐδὲ λυποῦμαι, οὐδὲ ἔχω τι κοινὸν πρὸς αὐτόν. Ἀλλ' οὐ τοῦτο ἐκέλευσεν ὁ Θεὸς, ἵνα μηδὲν κοινὸν ἔχῃς πρὸς αὐτὸν, ἀλλ' ἵνα πρὸς αὐτὸν κοινὰ ἔχῃς πολλά. ∆ιὰ τοῦτο γάρ σού ἐστιν ἀδελφὸς, διὰ τοῦτο οὐκ εἶπεν· Ἄφες τῷ ἀδελφῷ σου, ἃ ἔχεις κατ' αὐτοῦ· ἀλλὰ τί; Ὕπαγε, πρῶτον διαλλάγηθι αὐτῷ, κἂν ἐκεῖνος ἔχῃ τι κατὰ σοῦ, καὶ μὴ πρότερον ἀποστῇς, ἕως ἂν ἑνώσῃς τὸ μέλος εἰς ὁμόνοιαν. Σὺ δὲ, ἵνα οἰκέτην κτήσῃ χρήσιμον, καὶ χρυσίον καταβάλλεις, καὶ ἐμπόροις διαλέγῃ πολλοῖς, καὶ ἀποδημίαν πολλάκις ἀποδημεῖς μακράν· ἵνα δὲ τὸν ἐχθρὸν ποιήσῃς φίλον, οὐ πάντα κινεῖς καὶ πράττεις, εἰπέ μοι; Καὶ πῶς δυνήσῃ τὸν Θεὸν παρακαλέσαι, τῶν νόμων αὐτοῦ οὕτω καταμελῶν; Καίτοι οἰκέτου μὲν ἡ κτῆσις οὐδὲν μέγα ἡμᾶς ὀνῆσαι δυνήσεται, ὁ δὲ ἐχθρὸς γινόμενος φίλος, καὶ τὸν Θεὸν ἡμῖν ἵλεω ποιήσει καὶ εὐ 49.208 μενῆ, καὶ τὰ ἁμαρτήματα ἡμῖν διαλύσει ῥᾳδίως, καὶ παρὰ ἀνθρώποις ἔπαινον καὶ πολλὴν ἡμῖν κατὰ τὸν βίον προξενήσει τὴν ἀσφάλειαν· οὐδὲν γὰρ ἐπισφαλέστερον τοῦ καὶ ἕνα