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nor being able there to benefit those who obey him and belong to him? Therefore do not be displeased with what has been said; for I would say that one who loves me loves me most, not only when he praises me, but also when he reproaches me for my correction. For to simply praise everything, both what is well and what is not well, is no longer the act of a lover, but of a deceiver and a dissembler; but to praise, if something proper is done, and to reproach, if something is done amiss, this is the mark of a friend and a guardian. Therefore, I do not accept an enemy even when praising, but I welcome a friend even when reproaching; that one, even if he kisses me, is unpleasant; this one, even if he wounds me, is longed for; For more trustworthy, it says, are the wounds of a friend, than the voluntary kisses of an enemy. For the one, whether he reproaches justly or unjustly, does this wishing not to upbraid, but to correct; but the other, even if he reproaches justly, brings on his rebukes not to correct, but rather eager to make a public show. So nothing is equal to concord, beloved; for the one is thus many. For if two or ten are of one mind, the one is no longer one, but each of them becomes tenfold; and you will find the one in the ten, and the ten in the one; and if they have an enemy, he who attacks the one is captured as if he had attacked the ten. The one was in difficulty, but he is not in difficulty; for the part that is in difficulty is overshadowed by the greater part. Each of these has twenty hands and twenty eyes and as many feet, and has ten souls; for he accomplishes all things not only with his own, but also with theirs. And if there were a hundred, it will be the same again. The same one can be both in Persia and in Rome, and what nature cannot do, the power of love has achieved. If then he has a thousand or two thousand friends, consider to what point again he will surpass the limits of power. For this is the wonderful thing, to make the one 63.571 a thousand. For what reason then do we not acquire the power of love, and establish ourselves in safety? Until when do we confine it to one or two? For even if the one who has friends is poor, he has become much more resourceful than the rich; for what things he himself does not attempt to say on his own behalf, these the friend will say in his place; and whatever things he cannot grant to himself, he will grant through another. And it is not possible for the one guarded by so many bodyguards to suffer harm; for the king's bodyguards are not as diligent as these. For the former display their guard out of necessity and fear, but the latter out of goodwill and love; and the former fears his own guards, but the latter trusts in these more than in himself. And in another way: what wall so unbreakable, fortified by a harmony of large stones, becomes as impregnable to the assaults of enemies, as the company of those who love one another and are bound together in one accord? for it beats back the attacks of the devil; and very reasonably so. For those arrayed with one another against him become invincible to his devices, the brilliant trophies of love are raised. And just as the strings of a lyre, though they are many, but inclining to one harmony, sound a most delightful melody; so those blended into one mind, strike up the melodious sound of love; for nothing could ever be sweeter than love. What would a genuine friend not do? How much pleasure would he not produce, how much benefit, how much security? Even if you speak of ten thousand treasures, nothing is a worthy exchange for a genuine friend. And just as from brilliant bodies a bloom flows out to the places nearby; so also friends, to whatever places they come, they give off their own grace. It is better, therefore, to live in darkness, than to be without friends. For a fever does not usually burn down the nature of the body, as being separated from loved ones does to souls. For such is the longing of love, that it makes us imagine every day those who are not present with us, but are absent and longed for; and it removes us from all things at hand, and binds the soul of the one who loves only to the one longed for. But if one, seeing a loved one, or rather remembering him, is roused in his soul and

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οὔτε ἐκεῖ δυναμένῳ τοὺς πειθομένους αὐτῷ καὶ προσήκοντας ὠφελεῖν; Μὴ οὖν δυσχεράνητε τοῖς εἰρημένοις· καὶ γὰρ ἐγὼ τὸν φιλοῦντά με, οὐχ ὅταν ἐπαινῇ με μόνον, ἀλλὰ καὶ ὅταν ἐγκαλῇ διορθοῦσθαι, τότε φαίην ἂν μάλιστά με φιλεῖν. Τὸ μὲν γὰρ ἁπλῶς πάντα ἐπαινεῖν, καὶ τὰ καλῶς ἔχοντα καὶ τὰ μὴ καλῶς, οὐκέτι φιλοῦντος, ἀλλ' ἀπατεῶνος καὶ εἴρωνος· τὸ δὲ ἐπαινεῖν μὲν, ἄν τι τῶν δεόντων γίνηται, ἐγκαλεῖν δὲ, ἄν τι διημάρτηται, τοῦτο φίλου καὶ κηδεμόνος ἐστί. Τὸν μὲν οὖν ἐχθρὸν οὐδὲ ἐπαινοῦντα δέχομαι, τὸν δὲ φίλον καὶ ἐγκαλοῦντα προσίεμαι· ἐκεῖνος κἂν φιλῇ με, ἀηδής ἐστιν· οὗτος κἂν τραυματίζῃ με, ποθεινός ἐστιν· Ἀξιοπιστότερα γὰρ, φησὶ τραύματα φίλου, ἢ ἑκούσια φιλήματα ἐχθροῦ. Ὁ μὲν γὰρ κἂν δικαίως κἂν ἀδίκως ἐγκαλῇ, οὐκ ὀνειδίσαι, ἀλλὰ διορθῶσαι βουλόμενος τοῦτο ποιεῖ· ὁ δὲ κἂν δικαίως ἐγκαλῇ, οὐχὶ διορθῶσαι, ἀλλ' ἐκπομπεῦσαι μᾶλλον σπουδάζων τοὺς ἐλέγχους ἐπάγει. Ὥστε οὐδὲν ὁμονοίας ἴσον, ἀγαπητοί· ὁ γὰρ εἷς πολλοστός ἐστιν οὕτως. Ἂν γὰρ ὁμόψυχοι ὦσι δύο ἢ δέκα, οὐκέτι εἷς ἐστιν ὁ εἷς, ἀλλὰ δεκαπλασίων ἕκαστος αὐτῶν γίνεται· καὶ εὑρήσεις ἐν τοῖς δέκα τὸν ἕνα, καὶ ἐν τῷ ἑνὶ τοὺς δέκα· κἂν ἐχθρὸν ἔχωσιν, ὁ τῷ ἑνὶ προσβαλὼν, ὡς τοῖς δέκα προσβαλὼν, οὕτως ἁλίσκεται. Ἠπόρησεν ὁ εἷς, ἀλλ' οὐκ ἔστιν ἐν ἀπορίᾳ· τῷ γὰρ μείζονι μέρει τὸ ἀποροῦν συσκιάζεται. Ἕκαστος τούτων εἴκοσι χεῖρας ἔχει καὶ εἴκοσιν ὀφθαλμοὺς καὶ πόδας τοσούτους, καὶ ψυχὰς ἔχει δέκα· οὐ γὰρ τοῖς ἑαυτοῦ μόνον, ἀλλὰ καὶ τοῖς ἐκείνων ἐργάζεται πάντα. Εἰ δὲ καὶ ἑκατὸν γένοιτο, τὸ αὐτὸ ἔσται πάλιν. Ὁ αὐτὸς καὶ ἐν Περσίδι καὶ ἐν Ῥώμῃ δύναται εἶναι, καὶ ὅπερ ἡ φύσις οὐ δύναται, ἴσχυσεν ἡ τῆς ἀγάπης δύναμις. Ἐὰν οὖν χιλίους ἔχῃ φίλους ἢ δισχιλίους, ἐννόησον ποῦ πάλιν ὑπερβήσεται τὰ τῆς δυνάμεως. Τὸ γὰρ θαυμαστὸν τοῦτό ἐστι, τὸ χιλιοστὸν 63.571 ποιῆσαι τὸν ἕνα. Τίνος οὖν ἕνεκεν οὐ κτώμεθα τὴν δύναμιν τῆς ἀγάπης, καὶ ἐν ἀσφαλείᾳ ἑαυτοὺς καθιστῶμεν; μέχρι τίνος εἰς ἕνα καὶ δύο περιιστῶμεν αὐτήν; Κἂν γὰρ πένης ᾖ ὁ φίλους κεκτημένος, πολλῷ τῶν πλουσίων εὐπορώτερος καθέστηκεν· ἅπερ γὰρ αὐτὸς ὑπὲρ ἑαυτοῦ εἰπεῖν οὐκ ἐπιχειρεῖ, ταῦτα ὁ φίλος ἀντ' ἐκείνου ἐρεῖ· καὶ ὅσα οὐ δύναται ἑαυτῷ χαρίσασθαι, δι' ἑτέρου χαρίσεται. Καὶ οὐκ ἔστι παθεῖν κακῶς τὸν ὑπὸ τοσούτων δορυφόρων φυλαττόμενον· οὐ γὰρ τοιοῦτοι τοῦ βασιλέως οἱ σωματοφύλακες ἀκριβεῖς, ὡς οὗτοι. Οἱ μὲν γὰρ ἀνάγκῃ καὶ φόβῳ τὴν φυλακὴν ἐπιδείκνυνται, οἱ δὲ εὐνοίᾳ καὶ ἀγάπῃ· κἀκεῖνος μὲν τοὺς φύλακας αὐτοῦ δέδοικεν, οὗτος δὲ τούτοις μᾶλλον ἢ ἑαυτῷ θαῤῥεῖ. Καὶ ἄλλως· ποῖον οὕτω τεῖχος ἀῤῥαγὲς, ἁρμονίᾳ λίθων εὐμεγεθῶν ὠχυρωμένον, ἀπόρθητον γίνεται ταῖς τῶν ἐχθρῶν ἐφόδοις, ὡς τὸ σύστημα τῶν ἀλλήλους ἀγαπώντων καὶ ἐν ὁμοφροσύνῃ περιεσφιγμένων; τὰς γὰρ τοῦ διαβόλου προσβολὰς ἀποκρούεται· καὶ μάλα εἰκότως. Οἱ γὰρ μετ' ἀλλήλων κατ' ἐκείνου παρατασσόμενοι, ἀήττητοι γίνονται τοῖς αὐτοῦ μηχανήμασι, τὰ λαμπρὰ τῆς ἀγάπης ἐγείρονται τρόπαια. Καὶ καθάπερ αἱ τῆς λύρας νευραὶ πολλαὶ μὲν οὖσαι, εἰς μίαν δὲ νεύουσαι συμφωνίαν, τερπνότατόν τι μέλος ἠχοῦσιν· οὕτως οἱ πρὸς μίαν συγκεκραμένοι γνώμην, εὔηχον ἀνακρούονται τῆς ἀγάπης φθόγγον· καὶ γὰρ οὐδὲν τῆς ἀγάπης γλυκύτερον γένοιτ' ἄν. Τί οὐκ ἂν ἐργάσαι φίλος γνήσιος; πόσην μὲν οὐκ ἂν ἐμποιήσειεν ἡδονὴν, πόσην δὲ ὠφέλειαν, πόσην δὲ ἀσφάλειαν; κἂν μυρίους θησαυροὺς εἴπῃς, οὐδὲν ἀντάξιον γνησίου φίλου. Καὶ καθάπερ τὰ λαμπρὰ τῶν σωμάτων ἄνθος ἀποῤῥεῖ πρὸς τοὺς πλησίον τόπους· οὕτω καὶ φίλοι, οἷς ἂν παραγένωνται τόποις, τὴν ἑαυτῶν χάριν ἀφιᾶσι. Κρεῖσσον οὖν ἐν σκότῳ διάγειν, ἢ φίλων εἶναι χωρίς. Οὐ γὰρ οὕτω πυρετὸς κατακαίειν εἴωθε σώματος φύσιν, ὡς τὰς ψυχὰς τὸ κεχωρίσθαι τῶν φιλουμένων. Τοιοῦτος γάρ ἐστιν ὁ τῆς ἀγάπης ἔρως, ὡς τοὺς μὴ συμπαρόντας ἡμῖν, ἀλλ' ἀπόντας, ποθουμένους δὲ, καθ' ἑκάστην φαντάζεσθαι ποιεῖν ἡμᾶς τὴν ἡμέραν· καὶ τῶν μὲν ἐν χερσὶ πάντων ἀφίστησι, μόνῳ δὲ τῷ ποθουμένῳ προσδεσμεῖ τὴν τοῦ φιλοῦντος ψυχήν. Εἰ δὲ ἀγαπώμενόν τις ὁρῶν, μᾶλλον δὲ μεμνημένος τούτου, διανίσταται τῇ ψυχῇ καὶ