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5. A CONSOLATORY LETTER TO NECTARIUS 5.1 It was not yet the third or fourth day since I was struck by the news of the unbearable

affliction, and while still being in doubt, because the messenger of sorrows could not clearly relate the event to us, and praying that it was not true, being disinclined to accept what was rumored, I received a letter from the bishop precisely indicating the dreadful news. At which, how much I groaned and how much I shed a tear, what need is there even to say? For who is so stone-hearted, or so completely outside human nature, as to bear the event without suffering, or to be seized by only moderate grief in his soul? The succession of a splendid house, the support of a family, the hope of his fatherland, the offspring of pious parents nourished by countless prayers, being in the very flower of his age, has been snatched away from his father's hands and is gone. Are these things not sufficient to break down a nature of adamant and lead it to sympathy? So it is no great thing, if the evil has touched us too to the depths, we who have been attached to you completely from the beginning and who make your joys and sorrows our own. And yet up to the present time, the things that grieved you seemed to be few, and for the most part your affairs were carried along smoothly; but suddenly, by the malice of a demon, all the prosperity and cheerfulness of that house have vanished, and we have become a sad story in life. If, then, we wish to lament and weep over what has happened, the time of our life will not be sufficient for us, and all men, groaning with us, will not be able to make their lamentation equal to the suffering; but even if the stream of the rivers should become tears, it will not be enough to fulfill the mourning for what has happened. 5.2 But if we are willing now to bring forth the gift of God which He has placed in our hearts, I mean sober reason, which knows how to set limits for our souls even in prosperity, and in more dejected circumstances to bring to remembrance human affairs, and to suggest to us both what we have seen and what we have heard, that life is full of such sufferings and that there are many examples of human misfortunes, and, above all, that it is a command of God not to grieve for those who have fallen asleep who have believed in Christ, because of the hope of the resurrection, and that for great patience great crowns of glory are laid up with the Giver of prizes; if we allow reason to soothe us with these things, we might perhaps find some moderate solution to our trouble. Therefore I beseech you, as a noble combatant, to stand up to the magnitude of the blow and not to collapse under the weight of grief, nor to let your soul be swallowed up, being persuaded of this, that even if the reasons for the things ordained by God escape us, yet what has been ordained by the One who is wise and loves us is altogether acceptable, even if it be painful. For He himself knows how He arranges what is expedient for each, and why the limits of our life are unequal. For there is some reason, incomprehensible to men, for which some are led away from here sooner, while others are left behind to toil longer in this painful life. Therefore, we ought to worship His loving-kindness in all things and not be discontented, remembering that great and renowned voice which the great athlete Job uttered, when he saw ten children crushed at one table in a short moment of time: "The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; as it seemed good to the Lord, so also it came to pass." Let us make this wonder our own; the reward from the just Judge is equal for those who show equal deeds of valor. We have not been deprived of the child, but have given him back to the one who lent him; nor has his life vanished, but has been changed for the better; the earth has not hidden our beloved, but heaven has received him. Let us wait a little while, and we shall be with the one we long for. For even if the way more quickly

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5.τ ΠΡΟΣ ΝΕΚΤΑΡΙΟΝ ΠΑΡΑΜΥΘΗΤΙΚΗ 5.1 Οὔπω εἶχον τρίτην ἢ τετάρτην ἡμέραν πληγεὶς ἐπὶ τῇ ἀκοῇ τοῦ ἀφορήτου

πάθους, καὶ ἔτι ἀμφίβολος ὤν, διὰ τὸ μηδὲ σαφῶς δυνηθῆναι ἡμῖν τὸν μηνυτὴν τῶν ἀνιαρῶν τὸ συμβὰν διηγήσασθαι καὶ τὸ ἀπεύχεσθαι ἀληθῆ εἶναι, δυσπαραδέκτως ἔχων πρὸς τὰ θρυλούμενα, ἐδεξάμην γράμμα τοῦ ἐπισκόπου ἀκριβῶς σημαῖνον τὴν ἀπευκτὴν ἀγγελίαν. Ἐφ' ᾧ ὅσον μὲν ἐστέναξα καὶ ὅσον ἀφῆκα δάκρυον τί χρὴ καὶ λέγειν; Καὶ γὰρ τίς οὕτω λίθινος τὴν καρδίαν, ἢ ἔξω παντελῶς τῆς ἀνθρωπίνης φύσεως, ὥστε ἀπαθῶς ἐνεγκεῖν τὸ συμβάν, ἢ μετρίῳ πάθει τὴν ψυχὴν καταληφθῆναι; Οἴκου λαμπροῦ διαδοχή, ἔρεισμα γένους, πατρίδος ἐλπίς, γονέων εὐσεβῶν βλάστημα ὑπὸ μυρίαις εὐχαῖς ἐντραφέν, ἐν αὐτῷ τῷ ἄνθει τῆς ἡλικίας ὤν, ἐκ μέσου τῶν πατρικῶν χειρῶν ἀναρπασθεὶς οἴχεται. Ταῦτα ποίαν ἀδάμαντος φύσιν οὐχ ἱκανὰ ἐκλῦσαι καὶ εἰς συμπάθειαν ἀγαγεῖν; Ὥστε οὐδὲν μέγα, εἰ καὶ ἡμῶν διὰ βάθους ἥψατο τὸ κακόν, ὁλοκλήρως ἐξ ἀρχῆς προσπε φυκότων ὑμῖν καὶ τάς τε εὐφροσύνας ὑμῶν καὶ τὰς λύπας ἰδίας ἑαυτῶν ποιουμένων. Καίτοιγε ἐδόκει τὰ μέχρι τοῦ παρόντος χρόνου ὀλίγα θεῖναι τὰ λυποῦντα ὑμᾶς, ἐν τοῖς πλείστοις δὲ κατὰ ῥοῦν ὑμῖν τὰ πράγματα φέρεσθαι· ἀλλ' ἀθρόως, βασκανίᾳ δαίμονος, πᾶσα τοῦ οἴκου ἐκείνου ἡ εὐθηνία καὶ ἡ φαιδρότης ἠφάνισται, καὶ ἐγενόμεθα τῷ βίῳ διήγημα σκυθρωπόν. Ἐὰν μὲν οὖν ποτνιᾶσθαι ἐπὶ τοῖς συμβᾶσι καὶ δακρύειν βουλώμεθα, οὐκ ἐξαρκέσει ἡμῖν ὁ χρόνος τοῦ βίου, πάντες δὲ ἄνθρωποι, μεθ' ἡμῶν στένοντες, παρισῶσαι τῷ πάθει τὸν ὀδυρμὸν οὐ δυνήσον ται· ἀλλὰ κἂν τὸ τῶν ποταμῶν ῥεῦμα δάκρυον γένηται, ἐκπληρῶσαι τῶν συμβάντων τὸν θρῆνον οὐκ ἐξαρκέσει. 5.2 Ἐὰν μέντοι θελήσωμεν τὸ τοῦ Θεοῦ δῶρον ὃ ἐναπέθετο ἐν ταῖς καρδίαις ἡμῶν προενεγκεῖν νῦν, τὸν λογισμὸν λέγω τὸν σώφρονα, ὃς καὶ ἐν ταῖς εὐημερίαις μέτρα οἶδε ταῖς ψυχαῖς ἡμῶν ὁρίζειν, καὶ ἐν ταῖς κατηφεστέραις περιστάσεσιν εἰς ὑπόμνησιν ἄγειν τῶν ἀνθρωπίνων, καὶ ὑποβάλλειν ἡμῖν ἅ τε εἴδομεν, ἅ τε ἠκούσαμεν, ὅτι γέμει ὁ βίος τῶν τοιούτων παθῶν καὶ πολλὰ τῶν ἀνθρωπίνων συμφορῶν ἐστι τὰ ὑποδείγματα, καί, ἐπὶ πᾶσιν, ὅτι πρόσ ταγμα Θεοῦ ἐστι τὸ μὴ λυπεῖσθαι ἐπὶ τοῖς κεκοιμημένοις τοὺς εἰς Χριστὸν πεπιστευκότας, διὰ τὴν ἐλπίδα τῆς ἀναστάσεως, καὶ ὅτι τῆς μεγάλης ὑπομονῆς μεγάλοι παρὰ τῷ Ἀθλοθέτῃ οἱ στέφανοι τῆς δόξης ἀπόκεινται· ἐὰν ἐπιτρέψωμεν τῷ λογισμῷ ταῦτα ἡμῖν κατεπᾴδειν, τάχα ἂν εὕροιμέν τινα μετρίαν τοῦ κακοῦ λύσιν. ∆ιὸ παρακαλῶ σε, ὡς γενναῖον ἀγωνιστήν, στῆναι πρὸς τὸ μέγεθος τῆς πληγῆς καὶ μὴ ὑποπεσεῖν τῷ βάρει τῆς λύπης, μηδὲ κατα ποθῆναι τὴν ψυχήν, ἐκεῖνο πεπεισμένον ὅτι, κἂν οἱ λόγοι τῶν παρὰ Θεοῦ οἰκονομουμένων διαφεύγωσιν ἡμᾶς, ἀλλὰ πάντως γε τὸ παρὰ τοῦ σοφοῦ καὶ ἀγαπῶντος ἡμᾶς οἰκο νομηθὲν ἀπόδεκτόν ἐστι, κἂν ἐπίπονον ᾖ. Αὐτὸς γὰρ οἶδε πῶς ἑκάστῳ διατίθησι τὸ συμφέρον καὶ διὰ τί ἄνισα ἡμῖν τοῦ βίου τὰ πέρατα. Ἔστι γάρ τις αἰτία ἀνθρώποις ἀκα τάληπτος, δι' ἣν οἳ μὲν θᾶττον ἐντεῦθεν ἀπάγονται, οἳ δὲ ἐπὶ πλεῖον προσταλαιπωρεῖν τῷ ὀδυνηρῷ τούτῳ βίῳ κατα λιμπάνονται. Ὥστε ἐπὶ πᾶσι προσκυνεῖν αὐτοῦ τὴν φιλαν θρωπίαν ὀφείλομεν καὶ μὴ δυσχεραίνειν, μεμνημένοι τῆς μεγάλης ἐκείνης καὶ ἀοιδίμου φωνῆς ἣν ὁ μέγας ἀθλητὴς Ἰὼβ ἀνεφθέγξατο, ἐπὶ μιᾶς τραπέζης ἰδὼν δέκα παῖδας ἐν βραχείᾳ καιροῦ ῥοπῇ συντριβέντας· «Ὁ Κύριος ἔδωκεν, ὁ Κύριος ἀφείλετο· ὡς τῷ Κυρίῳ ἔδοξεν, οὕτω καὶ ἐγέ νετο.» Ἡμέτερον ποιησώμεθα τὸ θαῦμα τοῦτο· ἴσος ὁ μισθὸς παρὰ τοῦ δικαίου Κριτοῦ τοῖς τὰ ἴσα ἐπιδεικνυ μένοις ἀνδραγαθήματα. Οὐκ ἀπεστερήθημεν τοῦ παιδός, ἀλλ' ἀπεδώκαμεν τῷ χρήσαντι· οὐδὲ ἠφανίσθη αὐτοῦ ἡ ζωή, ἀλλ' ἐπὶ τὸ βέλτιον διημείφθη· οὐ γῆ κατέκρυψε τὸν ἀγαπητὸν ἡμῶν, ἀλλ' οὐρανὸς ὑπεδέξατο. Μικρὸν ἀναμεί νωμεν καὶ συνεσόμεθα τῷ ποθουμένῳ. Εἰ γὰρ καὶ θᾶττον τὴν ὁδὸν