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he did not abolish beforehand, but we all shall go this same way and the same lodging awaits us all. May it only be that we, through virtue, be made like him in purity, so that through the guilelessness of our character we may attain the same rest as the infants in Christ.

6.t CONSOLATORY, TO THE SPOUSE OF NECTARIUS

6.1 I was about to remain silent toward your modesty, considering that, just as even the gentlest of consolations causes pain to an inflamed eye, so also to a soul afflicted by heavy grief, even if it brings much comfort, speech seems somehow vexatious, when offered in the midst of extreme pain. But since it occurred to me that my speech would be to a Christian woman long since instructed in divine things and being prepared for human affairs, I did not think it right to neglect my duty. I know what the hearts of mothers are like, and, when I especially consider your own kindness and gentleness toward all, I reckon how great the pain is likely to be in the present circumstances. You have been bereft of a child whom, while he lived, all mothers counted blessed and prayed that their own be like him, and whom, when he died, they lamented, as if each had hidden her own in the earth. His death was a blow to two fatherlands, both ours and that of the Cilicians. With him the great and illustrious family fell, shaken as if a support had been removed. O encounter with an evil demon, how great an evil it was able to accomplish. O earth, forced to receive such a suffering. Perhaps even the sun shuddered, if it has any perception, at that grim spectacle. And what could one say that is as great as what the helplessness of the soul suggests? 6.2 But our affairs are not without providence, as we have learned in the Gospel, that not even a sparrow falls without the will of our Father, so that, if anything has happened, it has happened by the will of him who created us. And who has resisted the will of God? Let us accept what has happened; for by being impatient we neither correct what has happened and we destroy ourselves in addition. Let us not accuse the just judgment of God. We are too ignorant to test his ineffable judgments. Now the Lord is testing your love for him. Now is the time for you to receive the portion of the martyrs through endurance. The mother of the Maccabees saw the death of seven children and did not groan nor shed an ignoble tear, but giving thanks to God that she saw them being released from the bonds of the flesh by fire and iron and the harshest tortures, she was judged well-pleasing to God and renowned among men. The suffering is great, I too say, but great also are the rewards from the Lord laid up for those who endure. When you became a mother and saw the child and gave thanks to God, you knew surely that, being mortal, you had borne a mortal. What then is strange, if the mortal has died? But his untimeliness grieves us. It is uncertain whether this is not timely, since we do not know how to choose what is advantageous for souls nor to set deadlines for human life. Look around at the whole world in which you dwell, and consider that all things that are seen are mortal and all are subject to decay. Look up to the heaven; it too will one day be dissolved; to the sun; not even it will remain. All the stars, animals of the land and sea, the beauties around the earth, the earth itself, all are perishable, all a little later will not exist. Let the thought of these things be a consolation for what has happened. Do not measure the suffering by itself; for thus it will appear unbearable to you; but by comparing it to all human affairs, from there you will find its consolation. Above all I have this strong thing to say, spare your spouse; you are a consolation to one another; do not make the misfortune harder for him by consuming yourself in suffering. On the whole I do not think speech is sufficient for comfort, but I think it a matter of prayer

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προκατέλυσεν, ἀλλὰ πάντες ταύτην αὐτὴν πορευ σόμεθα καὶ πάντας τὸ αὐτὸ ἀναμένει κατάλυμα. Μόνον γένοιτο ἡμᾶς δι' ἀρετῆς τῇ καθαρότητι ἐκείνου ὁμοιωθῆ ναι, ἵνα διὰ τὸ ἄδολον τοῦ ἤθους τῆς αὐτῆς τοῖς ἐν Χριστῷ νηπίοις ἀναπαύσεως τύχωμεν.

6.τ ΠΡΟΣ ΤΗΝ ΟΜΟΖΥΓΟΝ ΝΕΚΤΑΡΙΟΥ ΠΑΡΑΜΥΘΗΤΙΚΗ

6.1 Ἔμελλον ἀποσιωπᾶν πρὸς τὴν κοσμιότητά σου, λογι ζόμενος ὅτι, ὥσπερ ὀφθαλμῷ φλεγμαίνοντι καὶ τὸ ἁπαλώ τατον τῶν παρηγορημάτων ἀνίαν ἐμποιεῖ, οὕτω καὶ ψυχῇ ὑπὸ θλίψεως βαρείας κεκακωμένῃ, κἂν πολλὴν παράκλη σιν φέρῃ, ὁ λόγος ὀχληρός πως εἶναι δοκεῖ, ἐν τῇ περιω δυνίᾳ προσφερόμενος. Ἐπεὶ δέ με εἰσῆλθεν ὅτι πρὸς χριστιανήν μοι ὁ λόγος ἔσται πάλαι πεπαιδευμένην τὰ θεῖα καὶ ἐμπαράσκευον οὖσαν πρὸς τὰ ἀνθρώπινα, οὐκ ἐνόμισα δίκαιον εἶναι παραλιπεῖν τὸ ἐπιβάλλον μοι. Οἶδα ποταπὰ τῶν μητέρων τὰ σπλάγχνα, καί, ὅταν ἰδίως τὸ σὸν περὶ πάντας χρηστὸν καὶ ἥμερον ἐνθυμηθῶ, λογίζομαι πόσην εἰκὸς ἐπὶ τοῖς παροῦσιν εἶναι τὴν ἀλγηδόνα. Παῖδα ἐζημιώθης ὃν περιόντα μὲν ἐμακάρισαν πᾶσαι μητέρες καὶ ηὔξαντο τοὺς ἑαυτῶν τοιούτους εἶναι, ἀποθανόντα δὲ ἐστέναξαν, ὡς ἑκάστη τὸν ἑαυτῆς γῇ κατακρύψασα. Ἐκείνου ὁ θάνατος πληγὴ ἐγένετο πατρίδων δύο, τῆς τε ἡμετέρας καὶ τῆς Κιλίκων. Ἐκείνῳ τὸ μέγα καὶ περιφανὲς γένος συγκατέπεσεν, ὥσπερ ἐρείσματος ὑφαιρεθέντος κατασεισθέν. Ὢ συνάντημα πονηροῦ δαίμονος, πόσον ἴσχυσε κακὸν ἐξεργάσασθαι. Ὦ γῆ τοιοῦτον ἀναγκασθεῖσα ὑποδέξασθαι πάθος. Ἔφριξε τάχα καὶ ὁ ἥλιος, εἴ τις αἴσθησις αὐτῷ, τὸ σκυθρωπὸν ἐκεῖνο θέαμα. Καὶ τί ἄν τις τοσοῦτον εἴποι ὅσον ἡ ἀμηχανία τῆς ψυχῆς ὑπο βάλλει; 6.2 Ἀλλ' οὐ γὰρ ἀπρονόητα τὰ ἡμέτερα, ὡς μεμαθήκαμεν ἐν τῷ Εὐαγγελίῳ, ὅτι οὐδὲ στρουθίον πίπτει ἄνευ θελήματος τοῦ Πατρὸς ἡμῶν, ὥστε, εἴ τι γέγονε, θελήματι γέγονε τοῦ κτίσαντος ἡμᾶς. Τῷ δὲ βουλήματι τοῦ Θεοῦ τίς ἀνθέστηκε; Καταδεξώμεθα τὸ συμβάν· δυσανασχετοῦντες γὰρ οὔτε τὸ γενόμενον διορθούμεθα καὶ ἑαυτοὺς προσα πόλλυμεν. Μὴ κατηγορήσωμεν τῆς δικαίας κρίσεως τοῦ Θεοῦ. Ἀμαθεῖς ἐσμεν ὥστε τὰ ἄρρητα αὐτοῦ κρίματα δοκιμάζειν. Νῦν σου λαμβάνει τὴν δοκιμὴν ὁ Κύριος τῆς πρὸς αὐτὸν ἀγάπης. Νῦν πάρεστί σοι καιρὸς διὰ τῆς ὑπομονῆς τὴν μερίδα τῶν μαρτύρων λαβεῖν. Ἡ τῶν Μακκαβαίων μήτηρ ἑπτὰ παίδων εἶδε θάνατον καὶ οὐκ ἐστέναξεν οὐδὲ ἀφῆκεν ἀγεννὲς δάκρυον, ἀλλ' εὐχαρισ τοῦσα τῷ Θεῷ ὅτι ἔβλεπεν αὐτοὺς πυρὶ καὶ σιδήρῳ καὶ ταῖς χαλεπωτάταις αἰκίαις τῶν δεσμῶν τῆς σαρκὸς λυομέ νους, εὐδόκιμος μὲν παρὰ Θεῷ, ἀοίδιμος δὲ παρὰ ἀνθρώ ποις ἐκρίθη. Μέγα τὸ πάθος, φημὶ κἀγώ, ἀλλὰ μεγάλοι καὶ οἱ παρὰ τοῦ Κυρίου μισθοὶ τοῖς ὑπομένουσιν ἀποκεί μενοι. Ὅτε ἐγένου μήτηρ καὶ εἶδες τὸν παῖδα καὶ ηὐχα ρίστησας τῷ Θεῷ, ᾔδεις πάντως ὅτι θνητὴ οὖσα θνητὸν ἐγέννησας. Τί οὖν παράδοξον, εἰ ἀπέθανεν ὁ θνητός; Ἀλλὰ λυπεῖ ἡμᾶς τὸ παρὰ καιρόν. Ἄδηλον εἰ μὴ εὔκαιρον τοῦτο, ἐπειδὴ ἡμεῖς ἐκλέγεσθαι τὰ συμφέροντα ταῖς ψυχαῖς καὶ ὁρίζειν προθεσμίας ἀνθρωπίνῃ ζωῇ οὐκ ἐπιστάμεθα. Περίβλεψαι τὸν κόσμον ἅπαντα ἐν ᾧ κατοι κεῖς, καὶ ἐννόησον ὅτι πάντα θνητὰ τὰ ὁρώμενα καὶ πάντα φθορᾷ ὑποκείμενα. Ἀνάβλεψον πρὸς τὸν οὐρανόν· καὶ οὗτός ποτε λυθήσεται· πρὸς τὸν ἥλιον· οὐδὲ οὗτος διαμε νεῖ. Οἱ ἀστέρες σύμπαντες, ζῶα χερσαῖα καὶ ἔνυδρα, τὰ περὶ γῆν κάλλη, αὐτὴ ἡ γῆ, πάντα φθαρτά, πάντα μικρὸν ὕστερον οὐκ ἐσόμενα. Ἡ τούτων ἔννοια παραμυθία ἔστω τοῦ συμβεβηκότος. Μὴ καθ' ἑαυτὸ μέτρει τὸ πάθος· ἀφόρητον γὰρ οὕτω φανεῖταί σοι· ἀλλὰ τοῖς ἀνθρωπίνοις πᾶσι συγκρίνουσα, ἐντεῦθεν εὑρήσεις αὐτοῦ τὴν παρα μυθίαν. Ἐπὶ πᾶσι δὲ ἐκεῖνο εἰπεῖν ἰσχυρὸν ἔχω, φεῖσαι τοῦ ὁμοζύγου· ἀλλήλοις ἐστὲ παραμυθία· μὴ ποιήσῃς αὐτῷ χαλεπωτέραν τὴν συμφοράν, τῷ πάθει ἑαυτὴν ἀνα λίσκουσα. Ὅλως δὲ οὐκ οἶμαι λόγον ἐξαρκεῖν εἰς παρά κλησιν, ἀλλ' εὐχῆς ἡγοῦμαι