Chapter VI.—Examples of Heathens Urged as Commendatory of Widowhood and Celibacy.

But if they who have (wives) are (thus) bound to consign to oblivion what they have, how much more are they who have not, prohibited from seeking a second time what they no longer have; so that she whose husband has departed from the world should thenceforward impose rest on her sex by abstinence from marriage—abstinence which numbers of Gentile women devote to the memory of beloved husbands!  When anything seems difficult, let us survey others who cope with still greater difficulties.  How many are there who from the moment of their baptism set the seal (of virginity) upon their flesh?  How many, again, who by equal mutual consent cancel the debt of matrimony—voluntary eunuchs66    Comp. de Pa., xiii., and Matt. xix. 12.  Comp. too, de Ex. Cast., c. i. for the sake of their desire after the celestial kingdom!  But if, while the marriage-tie is still intact, abstinence is endured, how much more when it has been undone!  For I believe it to be harder for what is intact to be quite forsaken, than for what has been lost not to be yearned after.  A hard and arduous thing enough, surely, is the continence for God’s sake of a holy woman after her husband’s decease, when Gentiles,67    i.e., Gentile women. in honour of their own Satan, endure sacerdotal offices which involve both virginity and widowhood!68    Oehler marks this as a question.  At Rome, for instance, they who have to do with the type of that “inextinguishable fire,”69    Matt. iii. 12. keeping watch over the omens of their own (future) penalty, in company with the (old) dragon70    Comp. Rev. xii. 9, and de Bapt., 1. himself, are appointed on the ground of virginity.  To the Achæan Juno, at the town Ægium, a virgin is allotted; and the (priestesses) who rave at Delphi know not marriage.  Moreover, we know that widows minister to the African Ceres; enticed away, indeed, from matrimony by a most stem oblivion:  for not only do they withdraw from their still living husbands, but they even introduce other wives to them in their own room—the husbands, of course, smiling on it—all contact (with males), even as far as the kiss of their sons, being forbidden them; and yet, with enduring practice, they persevere in such a discipline of widowhood, which excludes the solace even of holy affection.71    Pietatis.  These precepts has the devil given to his servants, and he is heard!  He challenges, forsooth, God’s servants, by the continence of his own, as if on equal terms!  Continent are even the priests of hell!72    Gehennæ; comp. de Pæn., c. xii. ad init.  For he has found a way to ruin men even in good pursuits; and with him it makes no difference to slay some by voluptuousness, some by continence.

CAPUT VI.

1283B Quod si habent , oblitterare debent quod habent: quanto magis non habentes, prohibentur repetere, quod non habent; ut cujus maritus de rebus abiit , exinde quietem sexui suo nubendi abstinentia injungat : quam pleraeque gentilium foeminarum memoriae carissimorum maritorum parentant . Cum quid difficile videtur, difficiliora alios obeuntes recenseamus. Quot enim sunt qui statim a lavacro carnem suam obsignant! Quot item, qui consensu pari inter se matrimonii 1284A debitum tollunt, voluntarii spadones pro cupiditate regni coelestis. Quod si salvo matrimonio abstinentia toleratur, quanto magis adempto! Credo enim difficilius salvum derelinqui, quam amissum non desiderari. Durum plane et arduum satis continentia sanctae foeminae post viri excessum Dei caussa, cum gentiles Satanae suo et virginitatis et viduitatis sacerdotio perferant? Romae quidem, quae ignis illius inextinguibilis imaginem tractant, auspicia poenae suae cum ipso dracone curantes, de virginitate censentur. Achaeae Junoni apud Aegium oppidum virgo sortitur: et quae Delphis insaniunt, nubere nesciunt. Caeterum viduas Africanae Cereri adsistere scimus, durissima quidem oblivione a matrimonio allectas. Nam manentibus in aeternum viris non modo thoro decedunt, sed et 1284B alias eis utique ridentibus loco suo insinuant, adempto omni contactu usque ad osculum filiorum, et tamen durante usu perseverant in tali viduitatis disciplina, quae pietatis etiam sanctae solatia excludit. Haec diabolus praecipit, et auditur: provocat nimirum Dei servos continentia suorum, quasi ex aequo contineant etiam gehennae sacerdotes . Nam invenit, quomodo homines etiam bonis sectationibus perderet; et nihil apud eum refert, alios luxuria, alios continentia occidere.