As catullus says, after the filthy fashion in vogue among the iberians.
There is another poem by plato dealing conjointly with the boys alexis and phaedrus:
The mother was rebuking her son because, after extolling me to her as a model of all the virtues, he now, at Rufinus' instigation, asserted that I was a magician. The actual words were as follows:
Apuleius is a magician and has bewitched me to love him! Come to me, then, while I am still in my senses.