S. AURELII AUGUSTINI HIPPONENSIS EPISCOPI DE BONO VIDUITATIS LIBER SEU EPISTOLA AD JULIANAM VIDUAM.

 AUGUSTINUS Episcopus, servus Christi, servorumque Christi , religiosae famulae Dei JULIANAE, in Domino dominorum salutem.

 2. Cum igitur in omni quaestione quae ad vitam moresque pertinet, non sola doctrina, verum etiam exhortatio sit necessaria ut doctrina quid agendum s

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 5. Ideo etiam cum moneret conjugatos, ne debito carnalis commixtionis fraudarent invicem et per hoc alter eorum negato sibi debito conjugali, per int

 6. Quapropter hoc primum oportet ut noveris, bono quod elegisti non damnari secundas nuptias, sed inferius honorari. Nam sicut bonum sanctae virginita

 7. Quod autem Apostolus, cum caelibum et innuptarum commendaret fructum, quia cogitant quae sunt Domini, quomodo placeant Deo, subjecit et ait, Hoc au

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 9. Disce itaque bonum tuum, imo memento quod didicisti, bonum tuum plus laudari, quia est aliud bonum quo sit hoc melius, quam si aliter hoc bonum ess

 10. Nec quia dixi Ruth beatam, Annam beatiorem, cum illa bis nupserit, haec uno viro cito viduata diu vixerit, continuo etiam te meliorem putes esse q

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 14. Lapsus a sancto proposito malus, nuptiae tamen lapsarum bonae. Quapropter non possum quidem dicere, a proposito meliore lapsas, si nupserint, femi

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 18. Nulla quidem istarum sex viduarum tuae normae adaequatur. Tu enim si hoc votum ad senectutem usque perduxeris, omnia tria potes habere, quibus Ann

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 24. Audiat haec virginis etiam sanctae prolis tuae auris interior. Videro quantum te praecedat in regno Regis illius: alia quaestio est. Invenistis ta

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 29. Deinde obsecro vos per illum a quo et hoc donum accepistis, et hujus doni praemia speratis, ut me quoque orationibus vestris memineritis inserere

19. These discussions, therefore, concerning the different deserts of married women, and of different widows, I would not in this work enter upon, if, what I am writing unto you, I were writing only for you. But, since there are in this kind of discourse certain very difficult questions, it was my wish to say something more than what properly relates to you, by reason of certain, who seem not to themselves learned, unless they essay, not by passing judgment to discuss, but by rending to cut in pieces the labors of others: in the next place, that you yourself also may not only keep what you have vowed, and make advance in that good; but also know more carefully and more surely, that this same good of yours is not distinguished from the evil of marriage, but is set before the good of marriage. For let not such, as condemn the marriage of widowed females, although they exercise their continence in abstaining from many things, which you make use of, on this account lead you astray, to think what they think, although you cannot do what they do. For no one would be a madman, although he see that the strength of a madman is greater than of men in their sound senses. Chiefly, therefore, let sound doctrine both adorn and guard goodness of purpose. Forsooth it is from this cause that catholic females, even after that they have been married more than once, are by just judgment preferred, not only to the widows who have had one husband, but also to the virgins of heretics. There are indeed on these three matters, of marriage, widowhood, and virginity, many winding recesses of questions, many perplexities; and in order by discussion to enter deeply into and solve these, there is required both greater care, and a fuller discourse; that either we may have a right mind in all those things, or, if in any matter we be otherwise minded, this also God may reveal unto us. However, what there also the Apostle saith next after, “Whereunto we have arrived, in that let us walk.”45    Phil. iii. 15, 16 But we have arrived, in what relates to this matter on which we are speaking, so far as to set continence before marriage, but holy virginity even before widowed continence; and not to condemn any marriages, which yet are not adulteries but marriages, by praise of any purpose whatever of our own or of our friends. Many other things on these matters we have said in a Book concerning the Good of Marriage, and in another Book concerning Holy Virginity, and in a Book which we composed with as great pains as we could against Faustus the Manichee; since, by most biting reproaches in his writings of the chaste marriages of Patriarchs and Prophets, he had turned aside the minds of certain unlearned persons from soundness of faith.

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19. Epilogus superiorum. Haec itaque de meritis diversis conjugatarum diversarumque viduarum hoc opere non disputarem, si id quod ad te scribo, tibi tantummodo scriberem. Sed quoniam sunt quaedam in hoc genere sermonis difficillimae quaestiones, aliquid amplius quam quod ad te proprie pertinet, dicere volui, propter quosdam qui sibi docti non videntur, nisi alienos labores non judicando conentur discutere, sed lacerando conscindere: deinde ut etiam tu ipsa non solum serves quod vovisti, et in co bono proficias; verum etiam diligentius firmiusque noveris, idem bonum tuum non a malo nuptiarum distingui, sed bono nuptiarum anteponi. Nam qui viduatarum feminarum nuptias damnant, etiamsi continentiam 0442 suam multarum, quibus tu uteris, rerum abstinentia mirabiliter et ferventer exerceant, non ideo te seducant, ut sentias quod sentiunt, etiamsi facere non possis quod faciunt. Nemo enim vult esse phreneticus, etiamsi videat phrenetici vires viribus sanorum esse fortiores. Praecipue igitur doctrina sana bonitatem propositi et ornet et muniat. Inde est quippe quod catholicae feminae etiam saepius nuptae, non solum univiris viduis, sed et virginibus haereticorum justo judicio praeferuntur. Multi sunt quidem de his tribus rebus, conjugii, viduitatis et virginitatis, quaestionum sinus, multae perplexitates: quibus disputando penetrandis vel dissolvendis, et majore cura opus est, et copiosiore sermone; ut vel in omnibus eis recte sapiamus, vel si quid aliter sapimus, id quoque nobis Deus revelet. Verumtamen, quod etiam illic consequenter dicit Apostolus, In quod pervenimus, in eo ambulemus (Philipp. III, 15, 16). Pervenimus autem, quod ad hanc rem, de qua loquimur, attinet, ut continentiam conjugio praeponamus, sanctam vero virginitatem etiam continentiae viduali; et ne aliquas nuptias, quae tamen non adulteria, sed nuptiae sunt, cujuslibet nostri nostrorumve propositi laude damnemus. Multa alia de istis rebus dicta sunt a nobis in libro de Bono Conjugali, et in alio libro de Sancta Virginitate; et in opere quod adversus Faustum Manichaeum quanto potuimus labore conscripsimus: quoniam Patriarcharum et Prophetarum casta conjugia mordacissime reprehendendo scriptis suis, quorumdam indoctorum animos a fidei sanitate detorsit.